There is no step by step rulebook to parenting, which is why it’s imperative for us to rely on the Lord as we raise our children. The Holy Spirit has a way of guiding us in every right way. 10 Parenting Tips: 1. We wish our kids lived in a perfect world, but the world isn’t perfect so we have to teach them to cope in this imperfect world. 2. We must discipline even when it hurts. And when they cry. Discipline builds character. 3. We must consistently teach our children; not scream at them. Many times in stores I oversee parents yelling at their unruly children when it’s evident…
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FAMILY & MOTHERING: Happy Mother’s Day To Me!
I was just about to fall into a deep sleep when I heard a pitiful “mooommma” from the bathroom. I walk in and this is what I see. Immediately I start laughing. Why? Because it’s Mother’s Day and I’m caring for a sick kid and cleaning up a bathroom full of thick vomit. Happy Mother’s Day to me! Of course I have compassion on my baby so I start tending to her needs and she starts apologizing. I let her know that it is okay! I then said “Happy Mother’s Day To Me!” and we both laugh. She knows its all good, and I know thats why I’m here-…
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COLLEGE UPDATE: Today I Received My Bachelor’s Degree
Today I received my bachelor’s degree in communications with honors- cum laude. Yesterday I was honored as the outstanding graduate from the communications department. Last Friday I married my best friend. And last month I birthed my second daughter. I say all that not too brag on myself, but to brag on my God. He is so good to me and anything is possible with Him. I mean anything. Sometimes we go through seasons when it seems that nothing goes right, but we have to keep going. I’ve admitted that to all of my readers. I’ve never claimed to have a perfect life, but I must stay honest and admit…
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3 DAYS OF MARRIAGE: I’m About To Cry
Sometimes you get so used to the hurts and disappointments that happiness surprises you. You’re so accustomed to people leaving that you can’t believe that someone will always be there. As I write I’m about to cry. I feel like crying because I’m so happy and honestly I’m in awe. I’m in awe that I was married on Friday. I’m in awe that my dream has finally come to a reality (thank you Francesca for the perfect wording). I’m in awe that I have everything I wanted in my husband. I didn’t settle. I am so thankful to God. I never desired to be a wife before I gave…
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Dear Margo Blue,
Dear Margo Blue, You did a whole lot- a lot of good and a lot of bad, but I’m so proud of you for learning. You experienced a lot in life at an early age but the good thing is that you matured early. Your 20’s were a mess! You jacked up ALOT, girl! But again I’m proud of you for learning. You truly learned a lot, and those learnings came with a lot of losses and a lot of tears. But you got thorugh it- you are so strong. 25 was an outstanding year for you. At 25 you gave your life to Christ and you were…
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Lord I Thank You: 8 Things
As I ended my day I realized I hadn’t wrote in my personal journal in some time so I pulled it out and just began to write. I wrote the date, titled it “God Time” (as I regularly do) and I began to write 8 things I’m thankful to the Lord for. I decided I would share this because sometimes we don’t take notice to the little things that Jesus does for us. Lord, I thank you: 8 Things I’m Thankful For 1. Everything. I live a comfortable life. I’m blessed, and although my life isn’t perfect, I realize the difference that Jesus makes. My life today is much…
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Trust God Above Everything
There are times in our lives when doing the will of God will not make sense to others, but we must learn to trust God above everything. God requires His servants to trust Him completely, no matter what it looks like. Think about it: Can you imagine Daniel in the lion’s den? Noah building the ark? Or, Moses facing the Red Sea? Servants of the Lord must have great faith! They must be able to place the spiritual above the natural. They must be able to hear the voice of the Lord louder than those of people. Trusting and following God is not an easy thing to do. We must…
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I Pulled Over To Write: 5 Things On My Mind
I’m driving listening to “The Body” by Wale and I was inspired to write, so here I am.. You know I love lists so let’s go! 5 things on my mind right now: 1. Happiness, or anything worthwile, will not be handed to you. Worthwhile things require work. Don’t believe me? Check out depression statistics. Happiness doesn’t always come easy. 2. Don’t force things. I’m learning to give up control when it comes to so many things. I can only do so much, and I’m learning to not expect myself to handle everything. I can’t force people to understand me or to do anything else for that matter. This…
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WOMEN: Be The BADDEST
When I say be the BADDEST I’m not referring to competing with anyone, or trying to be better than the next woman. I don’t think comparing ourselves will help us be the best that we can be. Honestly, I think comparing ourselves to others can make us feel worse about ourselves. When I say be the BADDEST I’m referring to us as women being the best that we can be. Focusing on ourselves, our growth, our goals, and our business so we have no choice but to get better. Being the BADDEST requires us to prioritize and keep our focus where it needs to be. When I say be the…
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MARRIAGE: Marriage is a Priority
If we are contemplating marriage then one thing we must wrap our minds around is the fact that marriage is a priority. This can be a difficult part of the process of marriage, as other priorities must shift. Marrying someone means that you are becoming one with them. This means that we should always consider our mates and how our decisions will impact them. There is no other relationship that requires us to become one with someone. The Bible clearly tells us that we become one with our partner: “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will…
