I turned 30 yesterday so I’ve been reflecting! My 20’s were filled with more twists and turns than I would have ever imagined, but one thing I can say is that I learned a lot! I’d be surprised if another decade is filled with as much growth as my 20’s. Here are my top 20 lessons from my 20’s: 1. Jesus is real. My life was completely changed when I gave my life to Christ. I don’t even want to think about the direction that my life would have gone (or continued to go) had I not accepted Christ. This was by far the best decision that I made…
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LIFE: It takes time
Everything takes time. Some things can only be revealed to us with time. Some things can only be learned with time. No matter what you’re facing, realize it takes time. Often times we overlook the importance of time. We try to rush things, or we get overly excited too soon. Give it time. We must allow our relationships to properly develop with time. Don’t expect too much too soon. Don’t think you know it all already. No, give it time. What about your goals? What do you want to accomplish? Sit down, map it out, and give it time. When it comes to progressing in life, realize it takes time.…
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What is humility??
What is humility?? I believe humility is a very misunderstood trait. Think about it. When you think of humility what comes to mind? Weakness, insecurity, or one who is easily taken advantage of? My Bible defines humility as “the absence of pride.” It defines pride as “the attitude that one is better than others.“ Pride looks at people and thinks they should do better. Pride talks about people critically, gossipy, and negatively. Humility looks at people and prays for them. Humility reminds us that we all have faults and things we need to overcome. Pride is always showing off. Bragging and boasting with no concern about the impact it has…
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LIFE: Be Adaptable
Our success in life depends on our ability to be adaptable. Â Life is full of changes so we must learn to be adaptable in order to keep up and keep our sanity. We enter relationships, we end relationships. Â We gain money, we lose money. Â We’re promoted, we’re demoted. We laugh, we cry. Â We’re loved, we’re hated. Â “To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:” – Ecclesiastes 3:1 Life is full of seasons. There’s always something new to deal with: a new experience, a new situation, and even new sorrows. Â We have to get to the point of expecting change. Â We have…
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Learn How To Avoid Drama
Drama is draining, unproductive, depressing, and truly not worthy of our attention. Â Drama sucks our energy until we have none left. Â Drama is sneaky in that it will try to sneak into your life through any person or any situation. Â If we are going to live the life that Christ has called us to live, we must learn how to avoid drama. Drama attempts to get us all, but everyone doesn’t respond the same way. Drama successfully enters our lives when we are not intentional to stop it. Â Drama will come in and take over our lives if we allow it- but we don’t have to allow it. Â We have…
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There’s Always A Fight: His Grace is Sufficient
I believe that no matter who we are or what we have that we are always fighting something. Â The fight may change, but still there’s always a fight. If we’re honest we could say that as long as we’re living we’ll be fighting. Â Kind of sounds depressing. Â What’s the point? As I’ve grown in life and my circumstances have changed, I’m learning that there will always be a new fight. Â Have you ever faced something that you never would’ve thought you’d be fighting? Â Or, are you now fighting a weakness that has always been a strength? Â How Do You Fight? It’s wise to never get too confident, complacent, or…
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FAMILY & PARENTING: 10 Parenting Tips
There is no step by step rulebook to parenting, which is why it’s imperative for us to rely on the Lord as we raise our children. Â The Holy Spirit has a way of guiding us in every right way. 10 Parenting Tips: 1. We wish our kids lived in a perfect world, but the world isn’t perfect so we have to teach them to cope in this imperfect world. 2. We must discipline even when it hurts. Â And when they cry. Â Discipline builds character. 3. We must consistently teach our children; not scream at them. Â Many times in stores I oversee parents yelling at their unruly children when it’s evident…
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FAMILY & MOTHERING: Happy Mother’s Day To Me!
I was just about to fall into a deep sleep when I heard a pitiful “mooommma” from the bathroom. Â I walk in and this is what I see. Â Immediately I start laughing. Â Why? Â Because it’s Mother’s Day and I’m caring for a sick kid and cleaning up a bathroom full of thick vomit. Happy Mother’s Day to me! Of course I have compassion on my baby so I start tending to her needs and she starts apologizing. Â I let her know that it is okay! Â I then said “Happy Mother’s Day To Me!” and we both laugh. Â She knows its all good, and I know thats why I’m here-…
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COLLEGE UPDATE: Today I Received My Bachelor’s Degree
Today I received my bachelor’s degree in communications with honors- cum laude. Â Yesterday I was honored as the outstanding graduate from the communications department. Â Last Friday I married my best friend. Â And last month I birthed my second daughter. I say all that not too brag on myself, but to brag on my God. Â He is so good to me and anything is possible with Him. Â I mean anything. Sometimes we go through seasons when it seems that nothing goes right, but we have to keep going. Â I’ve admitted that to all of my readers. Â I’ve never claimed to have a perfect life, but I must stay honest and admit…
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3 DAYS OF MARRIAGE: I’m About To Cry
Sometimes you get so used to the hurts and disappointments that happiness surprises you. You’re so accustomed to people leaving that you can’t believe that someone will always be there.  As I write I’m about to cry.  I feel like crying because I’m so happy and honestly I’m in awe. I’m in awe that I was married on Friday. I’m in awe that my dream has finally come to a reality (thank you Francesca for the perfect wording). I’m in awe that I have everything I wanted in my husband. I didn’t settle. I am so thankful to God. I never desired to be a wife before I gave…
