What’s the atmosphere of your home? How does your family interact with one another? Our home should be a safe space for the family, yet it certainly won’t happen on it’s own. It takes intention. As you’re focused on creating a grace-filled home, here are 5 tips. 5 Tips to Creating a Grace-Filled Home: 1. HUMILITY. Where there is pride, there is no grace. Pride places demands upon others and is critical and judgmental, while humility is gracious and patient. As parents, it’s imperative for us to humble ourselves before the Lord and His Word as this will allow us to parent with humility & grace. As the Lord humbles…
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How To Focus On What Truly Matters: 5 TIPS
One of the challenges that we constantly face in life is to remain focused on what truly matters. When being pulled in different directions, how do you focus on what truly matters? 5 TIPS ON HOW TO STAY FOCUSED ON WHAT TRULY MATTERS: 1. Write out your priorities & review them regularly. One way that I remain focused on my priorities is that I have them written out. You can’t trust yourself to just ‘know‘ them. Knowing them in your mind is somewhat abstract, while writing them out makes them real. Write them out, review them regularly, even speak them aloud. 2. Get quiet. One thing that I’m continuing to…
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My Birthday is 2 Days Away: 2 Days Left of 33
I wrote 4 days ago, sharing how I was in a state of reflection regarding my birthday. If you haven’t read it, read Choose to Live Right Now: 6 Days Left of 33. As I sit at IHOP on this Sunday evening at 11:37 p.m., with 2 days left of 33, I can honestly say that I’m now ready for the next stage. You know 1 thing that the Lord has been majorly dealing with me on? Humility. I’m simply humbled to realize how deep pride runs. How natural it is and honestly how good it feels. Pride is deceitful and ultimately destroys (Proverbs 16:18), but the only way to…
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Choose to Live Right Now: 6 Days Left of 33
Are you living right now? I mean really living. Are you enjoying your life? So often we rush through life, waiting for the next big thing, that we are not really living in the now. Whether we realize this or not, our desire for more keeps us in a continual state of dissatisfaction. We must learn how to live right now. We must choose to live right now. Today I am exactly 6 days away from turning 34 and I’m not excited about it. Actually, I’ve been a bit overwhelmed and discouraged because I haven’t completed a major project that I wanted to be done with before my birthday. Why…
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Spiritual Attacks Come In Various Forms: 3 Ways to Fight!
Today I stayed in bed all day. Yesterday wasn’t the best day. I felt a sense of uncertainty regarding my work- more specifically my gift. I woke up this morning grumpy, negative, lacking optimism for the day. Did I mention it was a rainy day? All I felt like doing was sleeping, and after my morning drop-offs and a quick work-out, that’s exactly what I did. I slept. I share all that with you to get you to this. Later in the day, I finally sat with the Lord (which ideally I would’ve done first thing this morning but I’m not perfect) and within 15 minutes I got exactly what…
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MARRIAGE: What I’ve Learned in 4 Years + 1 Day
Yesterday marked 4 years of marriage for us. Even as I write this I’m humbled and praying that the Lord gives me the words to share. I appreciate writing the anniversary posts because it allows me to reflect & simultaneously share with you what I’ve learned. Some of you are already married and will be encouraged by this, but I know others aren’t yet married so I want to share with you to provide insight that will assist you on your journey toward marriage. 4 Learnings from 4 Years + 1 Day of Marriage 1.Making the decision to marry my husband was the second best decision I’ve ever made in…
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BREAK FREE & LIVE! 10 Days Away!
BREAK FREE & LIVE! launches in exactly 10 days and I’m humbled and excited to be able to share it with the world. It has truly been a surreal experience up to this point. I never imagined that it would evolve the way it has. Check out a few pictures from the journey: When Christ sets us free, we are free indeed. As we follow Christ, we are simply walking in faith, often unaware of what lies ahead. Chains prevent us from walking in faith by keeping us attached to the things of the past. In order to BREAK FREE & LIVE!, we must forget those things which are behind…
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Free to Speak
Courage precedes speaking. You have to be free in order to speak. Are you free to speak? Do you speak your truth? Are you free to speak without adjusting your words to fit the audience? Or, do you adapt your words based on who you’re speaking with? Do you flat out lie in order to be accepted? These are questions we should all face, as our freedom lies in our ability to speak. In this post, I discuss how my freedom was in my speaking. We know we’re free when we’re able to talk about it. When we hide, lie, fake and pretend, we’re still bound. When we are free,…
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Fight for your Freedom: 5 Tips
In 24 days the highly anticipated BREAK FREE & LIVE! will be launching, and you know what I’m doing?  Fighting for my freedom.  No matter your stage in life, you must know that you will have to fight for your freedom. Life is such a fight.  No matter where we are in life as children of God, we must stay prepared to fight.  If we are bound, we will fight for our freedom.  If the Lord has set us free, we will fight to maintain our freedom. Don’t let the enemy oppress you and weigh you down with negative thoughts.  Don’t feel as if you’re the only one fighting.  Though…
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Are You Free? BREAK FREE & LIVE!
BREAK FREE & LIVE! will be launching in exactly 38 days on 3.3.19 and the question on the table is this: Are you free? 5 Questions to Determine How FREE You Really Are: Are you free from the opinions of others? Do you quickly react to situations around you? Do you still feel guilty from past decisions? Are your emotions unstable and often negative? Do you battle feelings of inadequacy? I encourage you to answer these questions honestly.  Our situations won’t change until we put forth the effort to change them.  If you answered yes to any of the above questions, BREAK FREE & LIVE! is a must-read. It’s easy to seek temporary solutions…
