Most of us women have faced the same types of struggles. Insecurity, depression, loneliness, heartbreak, and confusion, are among the common issues. Although we have many differences, there are also many things that weave us all together. Over the past few days I’ve had some inspiring conversations that have moved me to break women up into 2 simple categories. What kind of woman are you? 1- The focused woman. This woman is not sucked up into all the drama. She’s not perfect, nor does she have a perfect life, but she focuses her energy on what will bring her back better results. She’s progressive, determined, and will not be…
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MARRIAGE: 20 Things a Wife Should Do!
Whether you are already a wife or anticipating the day you will be, there are many roles and responsibilities of a godly wife. 20 Things a Wife Should Do: 1. Bring her husband good, not harm, all the days of her life. 2. Be trustworthy- Her husband should have full confidence in her. 3. Work with eager hands. 4. Get up while it is still dark to provide food for her family. 5. Invest money. 6. Work vigorously. 7. Be profitable, staying up late to get the job done. 8. Be generous to the poor and give to the needy. 9. Ensure that her family is prepared for cold weather.…
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GOAL-SETTING: 5 Ways To Achieve Your Goals
Goal-setting is an important aspect of progressing in life. When you have goals you have a clear picture of what you’re working toward. Goal-setting allows you to specifically determine what you want to achieve. Once you determine your goals, you have to stay committed to complete them. 5 Ways To Achieve Your Goals: 1. Keep Christ first. It is imperative to not allow your goals to become your main thing. Christ must always be your #1 and as you keep Him #1, He has a way of blessing everything else. Set and complete your goals, but keep Christ #1. “This book of the law shall not depart out of…
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Friends kill friends: Pray for wisdom & discernment
Yesterday I started the book “Killing Jesus” by Bill O’Reilly & Martin Dugard. Reading this book has me noticing a trend- friends kill friends. The book is detailing the shocking events that lead up to the crucifixion of Jesus. It also goes into detail on other legendary figures of this time period, including Julius Caesar. I love history books because people are people, and although times are much different now, people tend to remain the same. Desires, actions, and motives repeat themselves throughout history. Let me tell you about the trend I’m noticing… In case you’re not familiar with the deaths of Caesar and Jesus, they were both plotted against…
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I’m Back From a 21 Day Break
It feels good to be back from my 21 day break, though I must admit that the break felt good. We don’t realize how weighed down we are until we let some things go and clear our space. For the past 21 days I have let go of the ‘world’ in a sense, only participating in what’s necessary: work, school, church, parenting, etc. My phone time was limited and then I completely cut out Facebook. I feel good. I think we’d all be surprised at how much energy we give to things that truly don’t matter. Simply put: we waste a lot of time doing nothing. We can all benefit…
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Where have I been??? Let me explain…
Where have I been??? Let me explain.. I’m taking some time to slow down, and even stop doing some things. I want to start the New Year doing exactly what I’m supposed to be doing. I want to be in align with my source- God. I’m starting to learn that the more I slow down and let Him lead me the more effective I am. This year I want to be effective in everything I do- including writing for my site. I want to ensure that I’m in tune with my Creator and my purpose. I want to write what I’m supposed to write, not what will give me the…
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Spending Money Wisely: 10 Tips
No matter where we are in life, we’re all focused on spending money wisely. 10 Tips to Spending Money Wisely: 1. Anytime we get money we should always do 3 things: Save some, share some, spend some. 2. Before you get money, envision what you want to do with it. Save it? Pay bills? Get your nails done? Envision it and plan for it before you get it. Don’t just spend without thinking. 3. Live below the amount of income you have. Don’t spend every penny you get. This causes unnecessary stress. 4. Learn from others. When I was a young girl I remember seeing chewed gum in my…
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Are you speaking negative? Speak Words of Life Over Your Life.
The words we speak play such a huge role in our lives. We must speak words of life over our lives. I’m currently reading “I Declare” by Joel Osteen and it addresses how our words affect our lives. He states that by the words we speak, we are actually prophesying our future. In other words, you are creating your future by the words you are speaking today. You are bringing either good things or bad things to you by what you say. “The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit.” – Proverbs 18:21 Are you speaking life and goodness over…
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Are you stressing & worrying? Ask God For What You Need.
Do you ask God for what you need? Do you believe that He cares about your every need? Yesterday I was listening to a Joyce Meyer message and she discussed how she spoke with a lady who felt it was wrong to ask God for money. The lady was struggling to meet her quota at work and Joyce asked her if she had asked God for help. Joyce comforted the woman and let her know that it is absolutely okay to ask God to help her with her sales so that she could earn more money and ultimately keep her job. We should depend on God for everything. He is…
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What is your personality type? Learn it & manage it.
It’s amazing how even as Christians our personalities can be an obstacle. We pray to be Spirit-led, but our personalities oppose that. Understanding our personality type plays a huge role in walking like Christ. This morning I woke up thinking about how I’ve recently handled a situation. A particular book came to mind that a church sister gave to me. It’s titled: “The Spirit-Controlled Woman” by Beverly LaHaye. An AMAZING read! It focuses on the different personality types and how they contribute to or undermine us being Spirit-led. I grabbed it off my book shelf and spent some time reading it this morning. My personality type is a choleric. I love…
