It’s so easy to subconsciously place your life in someone else’s hands, however, we must be intentional to make the best decisions for our lives.  We must make decisions that will move our lives forward. We often trust, rely on, and hope that others are looking out for our best interest. Sometimes they are, sometimes they’re not.  Sometimes they’re not even making the best decisions for themselves.  So why would we expect them to make the right decisions for us? We must always take control of our lives.  Logic, not emotions must rule our decisions. Emotions are unreliable.  They make you feel good, yet they can ultimately destroy you. They…

Lately I’ve been very sensitive and observant to the interactions that I have been having with some fellow Christians.  Yes, I get it, no one’s perfect; but I have been noticing a few things that should rarely be observed from Christians. I do believe that it’s very easy to ‘drift’ or even subconsciously do things.  We have to be aware of our ways, our motives, and most importantly our hearts. Here are 4 Things Christians Should NOT Be: 1. Christians should not be critical of others. – While on Earth, Jesus was asked: “Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?”  Jesus replied: “Love the Lord your God with…

To be transparent means to be free from pretense or deceit.  When we are transparent we are easily detected or seen through, readily understood. How many of us are truly transparent?  How often does pride stop us from sharing something?  How often do we stop ourselves from doing something because of how it may make us ‘look’?   What about this one: What would they think of me? Take some time to consider that. So much of what we do is not an accurate representation of who we truly are.  The world pressures us in ways that we don’t fully realize.  Media, music, and our culture all influence the things we…

I am in love with this word- refined! I’ve been looking into it since after writing this post, and I recently reviewed the antonyms.  You have to check this out!  If you haven’t already, read the post over the scripture Psalm 66:10.  That’s where it all started. First of all, refined = Free from impurities. Secondly, synonyms of refined = Developed, evolved, forward, higher, improved, progressive, advanced. Thirdly, antonyms of refined = Backward, lower, nonprogressive, retarded, rude, undeveloped. Lastly, the scripture Psalm 66:10 states: “For you, O God, tested us; you refined us like silver.” This word is so powerful to me.  It is a reminder that if I am not tested,…