I remember when my main 2 concerns in life were my Maraya and my money. I had Maraya at a time in my life when real, consistent love was scarce. All I wanted to do was love and provide for her. Now, my life has come so far.
Today, my most important priority is Jesus Christ. When I’m right with Him, everything else is right. He has blessed me with a God-serving, faithful husband who loves me and two more beautiful daughters. Now there is love all around me!
I have come to realize that we all have a story & where we started has less weight than where we can end up. No matter how we start, as long as we lose the victim mentality, we don’t have to stay there. Don’t blame and cry about your situation- Work to change it.
Let me clarify that work is only one aspect of change. We must first have faith.
“Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.” – Hebrews 11:1
You must believe, without wavering, that a change is possible for you. If you don’t yet believe that then you must spend some time with our Heavenly Father. Quiet time with Him and in His Word is mind-changing, life-changing. Let Him speak the words to You that you have never heard.
He will tell you things such as: I will never leave you nor forsake you, nothing can separate my love from you, I knew you before you were in the womb, you are more than a conquerer through Christ Jesus, you are fearfully and wonderfully made.
Hear things like that long enough and you’ll start to believe that YOU are worthy of a change.
I encourage you to take some time today to look at yourself, your life and determine what needs to change. I’m certain you will consider changing aspects of your situation, which is good, but remember for that to change YOU must change.