Sometimes it’s necessary to take a break from the day. Some days are easy and smooth, yet others require so much more from us. So much goes on within a day- various decisions, roles, and daily responsibilities can take us on an emotional rollercoaster. Our days can get demanding with so much to get done. Some days make us cry, some days make us scream, and some days make us want to quit. We can’t give in though, we must press on. How do we do this? Take a break! Here are 10 Tips: 1. Stop and enjoy ice cream. No rush. Take a break. Enjoy. 2. Pray. Talk with…
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BOOK REVIEW: “9 Things You Simply MUST DO to SUCCEED in LOVE and LIFE”
Oh my goodness! This book is amazing! I am an avid reader, but some books are superior to others! This book is definitely above average: “9 Things You Simply MUST DO to SUCCEED in LOVE and LIFE” by Dr. Henry Cloud. It has me in awe! It’s made me cry, stop to digest the information, and practically tell everyone in conversation about how good it is! Yes it’s that good! A few key points: – Those who succeed in life cannot ignore their hearts, minds, and souls. – Take appropriate risks. There is very little growth and reward in life without taking risks. Avoidance of risk is the greatest risk of…
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2 Things College Does To Us: Speaking & Thinking
Aug. 12th was my first day at Rogers State University in Claremore, OK and since then I’ve already: completed 2 group projects where we’ve presented information to the class; presented 1 persuasive speech where I’ve proposed that the legal drinking age be raised to 25; participated in class discussions around the stereotypes that north Tulsa carries; wrote a 4 page paper on a communication theory that states that minority opinions are not as openly and confidently shared as the majority opinions are; and I’ve conducted research on prostitution to gather evidence that both supports and rejects prostitution! Pretty intense for only 1 month and 7 days! Today while in class,…
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The Last Shall Be First: Be Ok Being Last
Most of the time in our lives, we’re not where we want to be. We look around and think that others are much further in life than we are. They may have degrees, be married, have nicer cars, more money, and all that good stuff. Often times we think that we are last. We think that we could never be on top. Consider this for a moment… In the Bible, the disciples of Jesus were discussing who was the greatest. Jesus questioned them about this and they all kept quiet, not wanting to tell Him about their discussion. “And he sat down, and called the twelve, and saith unto them,…
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I Cried Today & It Was A Good Thing
I cried today, but not from pain or even sadness. Just the opposite actually. This evening I had to rehearse a speech at church for a children’s meeting that I’m speaking at. My daughter, Maraya, was also there and observed all of us practice. Afterward, she whispered to me: “Can I go next?” I asked our Pastor and she said yes so they introduced Maraya. She walked up so confidently and sweetly and said her name. She actually nervously repeated it just like I did. 🙂 She then began to speak about Jesus. She spoke of how we have to be obedient so He can bless us. She was so eloquent,…
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College is not easy: It requires sacrifice
It’s 12:40 a.m. and I’m still up and going. Today has been quite a day. College is not easy. I cried today. I prayed today. I meditated today. I was encouraged by my friends today. I started a good book today titled “9 Things You Simply MUST DO“. I also cried a little while reading it. 🙂 I came to the realization today that: I must setup something to remind myself of my ultimate goals. I need a reminder of my why. On tough days, like today, I need to be reminded of why I am sacrificing today. I’m sacrificing: sleep, money, time, relationships, enjoyment, relaxation. I am uncomfortable. Extremely uncomfortable. I need…
